Thursday, January 15, 2009

Seriously. The NERVE!

So, I was told the other day that it's not too late to adopt Milo out to a loving family. Apparently, Milo deserves more than what I can offer him, oh, and he deserves a mother to be at home with him during the day, and a father in his life.
This all came about because this certain person took it upon themselves and decided that Milo was not to be in day care all day. They even told me how many hours a day he was there. Must have been stewing over this thought for several days....
I love Milo. I love Milo more than ANYTHING else. How disgusting to challenge my love for him. I am hard enough on myself as it is, I don't need others telling me he deserves better, and telling me that I'm a bad mom. Milo has a mother that laughs and plays and certainly loves him every moment she is with him. That's what he knows, and that is what he loves. Milo has a father. Milo's father supports him financially, and for that we are grateful.
I believe that as long as you are loved and feel secure, it doesn't matter if you are playing at "school" while mommy is working hard to provide a life for you. If you are told it's normal, you will believe it's normal. If you are told you are unloved, that is what you will eventually believe. Does this make TOO much sense? Probably.
I get sick at the thought and am so disgusted and hurt they would say such a thing.